Many people are desperate to find their soul mates; they want to find that special someone who makes them feel great, who they can go through life with as friends and lovers. Some are lucky – they meet their soul mates early in life and they live happily ever after. For most though, the concept of a soul mate remains an elusive one, something that they could happen but over which they have no control. While there is no magic bullet to finding your soul mate, there are certain things that you can do to enhance the chances of meeting someone you can live the rest of your life with.
Get rid of the notion of the perfect relationship
Ask most people who have found their soul mates and they will tell you that it is all not smooth sailing. True, they get along a lot of the time but they fight from time to time or even get bored with each other. The idea of the perfect relationship will get in the way of you meeting your soul mate. Look, instead, for someone with whom you have a foundation on which you can build a future together.
Do things that you don’t ordinarily do
If you orbit in the same circles every day of your life you are meeting the same people. If you want to find the right person for you it’s best to go out there in places where you don’t ordinarily frequent and meet new people. Do you go to the library, for instance? If not, how about you start reading there once a week and meet a few new people? If you can afford to travel even better – go overseas with the aim of making new friends. You may bump into your soul mate this way. You can also try speed dating, matchmaking services, starting a new outdoor hobby like cycling to join your local or national cycling club.
Don’t ignore premonitions
David Brown one day woke up in the morning with a phone number on his mind. When it wouldn’t go away he called it and on the other end was a woman, Michelle Kitson. They called each other a few times after which they fell in love and got married. The universe works in ways we don’t understand so why not indulge it?