Hi, I am Justin from New York City, New York, USA and my problem is that my wife and I keeps on fighting with each other on many silly issues and because of this problem we are experiencing a lot of relationship problems in our relationship. Now I am hoping if you can give some suggestion or solution to me that can help me get rid of these problems in my relationship.
Hey Justin, few problems are very much common in all the relationships, but as you said you are having some serious problems, then you may need to act on it quickly and I believe following suggestion may help you with it.
Control your anger: This is a well known fact that anger is a big reason for so many relationship problems, so if you don’t want to have any problem in your relationship then it is strongly recommended that you control on your anger. In order to do this you just need to make sure that whenever your partner is angry and says something to you in that is not acceptable, then instead of replying at that particular time, just stay calm and wait till she is in her normal mood. After that you can share your point with her and this simple act will avoid the fight between you two.
Communicate: If you do not have a proper communication between you and your wife, then it will also create a number of relationship problems between you both. That’s why it is also suggested that you do good communication with each other and you listen to each other for better understanding. In addition to this, it is also necessary that if you have something in your mind, then you share your thoughts in an acceptable and understanding manner.
Understand her expectations: If you want to make sure that you experience no problem in your relationship, then it is strongly suggested that you understand her expectations from you. Few females may expect only few lovely words from you and a few may wish to have some of your time that is dedicated only for her. So, it is a good idea that you understand her expectations and you try to act accordingly to make you both happy.
Stop living in the past: You cannot get rid of your relationship problems in any situation unless you start living in present and future. Therefore, it is very important that you forget everything bad that you experienced in your past and you live in the future only. With this approach you will have a chance of building a great and loving relationship for you both in a great way.
Ignite the love again: This is the most important thing that you need to do get rid of all of your relationship problems. We don’t have to prove it that any relationship may not last longer in the absence of love and passion, and we also suggest you to have it back in your relationship. And when you will have love again in your relationship, then this is an assurance that you will have no other problem in your relation in any condition.